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December 14, 2007Leading Your Leaders
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by by Amy SimpsonAs a leader, it's easy to understand and embrace your responsibility for those entrusted to your leadership. But how often do you think about your responsibility to lead your leaders? Try these 10 strategies for exercising your leadership skills in relationship to those who lead you.
1. Pray for them. This is pretty self-explanatory. Everyone needs prayer, and people in leadership often need extra doses of God's wisdom.
2. Care about them. Sometimes we're so intimidated by our leaders, or eager to get their feedback, that we forget they're real people with real lives and challenges. Think about ways to encourage your leaders. Ask them how they're doing and how you can serve them.
3. Make them look good. Servant leadership means supporting others in their efforts. Instead of giving in to the temptation to undermine leaders when their weaknesses show, find ways to compensate for their shortcomings.
4. Draw boundaries. Your leaders don't know when you've reached your limit unless you speak up. Chances are, they care about you and don't want you to burn out. So respectfully and graciously tell them what you can and cannot do.
5. Tell them what you need. Sometimes we make the mistake of expecting our leaders to read our minds, and we resent them when they fail to give us what we need. Instead of waiting for them to figure it out, tell them. Ask questions when you need information, make requests when you need resources, and be open about your challenges.
6. Be queen of your castle. Take responsibility for what your leaders have entrusted to you. Make sure you understand how involved your leaders want to be; beyond that, consider yourself the queen and show pride in ownership. In support of your leaders' overall vision, develop a specific vision for your area of responsibility - and share it with them.
7. Take initiative. When you see something that needs to be done, do it, or speak to someone who can. Bring up your ideas, look for ways to make things better, and ask your leaders if you can carry out your plans.
8. Do your homework. Before you make a proposal to your leaders, anticipate their questions, concerns, and needs. Then prepare yourself so you'll really know what you're talking about and you can meet their needs on the spot.
9. Eat, sleep, and breathe your calling. Wherever God has placed you, develop a passion for the calling he has given you. Let your obedience to God motivate you to get better at what you do. Then express your passion to your leaders. Your enthusiasm is likely to feed theirs when they're tired - and they, in turn, can help to keep yours burning.
10. Dare to disagree. When your leaders request your opinion, make sure you give it to them. The power of collaboration is lost if everyone just says what they think the leaders want to hear. And sometimes you need to speak up when your leaders haven't requested your opinion. Seek God's wisdom, then respectfully disagree when you believe your leaders need correction.
Posted by Amy Simpson on December 14, 2007 9:30 AM
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Comments
Thank you for this article. I am always reading to make myself a better leader. This article was short and although I know it, it is good to be reminded again.
Thank you and Many Blessings
Ronda
Posted By: Ronda Martin | December 18, 2007 12:18 PM
Thank you for this article. Like Ronda, I am always looking for ways to improve myself as a leader. Through prayer, and the support of my board members, friends, and family, I hope to give the membership of my organization the things they need. This was very inspiring and reminded me of a few things that I can share with my board. God bless you.
Posted By: Anita | December 19, 2007 7:21 AM
Great list! And not surprisingly, it also very much relates to us as wives encouraging our husband leaders. Imagine how many marriages would improve if we women did these listed things for our men!
Posted By: Irma | December 28, 2007 9:12 AM
As I seek God for my insructions for the new year, this article was very timely and needed in my current quest for positioning myself in ministry, in life, in God. Thanks so much for the insight and I will definitely take these ideals to heart (again) and use them to the glory of God in my ministry to my leaders.
Posted By: Shalonda Adams | December 28, 2007 9:18 AM
This information is so helpful for the women's group at my college. May I use some of this material as a subject and discussion serious?
Posted By: Carolyn | November 12, 2008 4:04 PM