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April 21, 2008

Food for Thought

by by Beverly Hislop

Women process pain differently than men. Women need to talk about it, to get it out in an affirming environment before receiving direction. Empathetic listening skills are critical. Understanding is essential. In some ways, women desperately need the comfort only other women can give.

I have discovered that once my students hear the story of a woman who has experienced the pain of abortion, divorce, or domestic violence, they begin to grow in compassion. They open their hearts for a deeper understanding of the pain, and an eagerness for helping those who feel it.

At the same time, a woman who has had the opportunity to share her own story of pain in a safe environment also grows in healing and compassion. A woman who has overcome intense hurt often feels an intense desire to help those with similar wounds.

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Excerpted from Dealing With the Emotionally Wounded, a new downloadable resource from Gifted for Leadership.

Posted by Bonnie McMaken on April 21, 2008 2:40 PM

Comments

I agree with you sister.

Posted By: Nicole | July 14, 2008 4:12 AM

I totally agree with you. With persons seeking help, problems are dealt with in the proper way, and women become more aware of their true selves, able to forgive the offender, and there is freedom to pick up themselves and move on with the help of the Lord.

Posted By: Abigail Taylor | January 9, 2010 4:21 PM

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