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March 31, 2009Measuring Success
by by Susan AricoIt's all about the numbers. In my line of work - program consulting for Christian nonprofits - the trends and buzzwords center on end-result statistics. Assessments, evaluations, outcome measurements - all tracking impact to determine whether a ministry's achieving its goals and making a difference. Donors care about this increasingly, requiring accountability for the funds they're giving.
It's a good trend in the nonprofit arena, but how helpful is it in our own daily lives? Because it seems to me that the average American life is also becoming pretty measurement-focused. Examples: How many followers do I have for my blog? How many comments or pingbacks did a given post elicit? How many friends do I have on Facebook? What's the ?average reader rating' for that online article I wrote? How many emails, texts, voicemails did I receive today?
The technology that now structures so much of our lives is forever counting, tracking relentlessly. And we who keep up with the digitized world tend to use the numbers as a means of gauging our day-to-day lives. They're external markers - data, if you will - by which we measure the impact we're making on other people. If we're doing anything valuable; if people care.
The stats are ever-present and pervasive, and they can exert a lot of influence over us. When our numbers go up, we may view ourselves as worthwhile, successful. When they don't, we may feel like failures. Relatively low readership causes many bloggers to lose heart and quit, claiming their stats make their efforts seem meaningless. The milieu supports such conclusions, with sidebars about "growing your blog" and "expanding your reach." In some blogging platforms, you can't write a new post without seeing how many viewers visited your site that day. This is just how the blogging world works.
And it's natural and even godly to want our efforts to have impact. We're called to "make the most of every opportunity" (Col 4:5) and to be good stewards of our time and gifts. But the measurement features that digitization bring can carry false and even damaging messages that can distract us. So we must be watchful, prayerful, and wise.
The problem is that the life of faith isn't about "the numbers." For one thing we're called, as Oswald Chambers famously wrote, to live for an audience of One, valuing God's viewership supremely (and sometimes exclusively). For another, Jesus himself made it clear that the worth of a single human soul is infinite to him. If he was willing to leave the ninety-nine sheep to rescue the one that was lost, surely he wouldn't favor a mindset that deems efforts worthless when they aren't accompanied by high numbers.
Underneath it all, a magnified focus on our stats is tied almost inevitably to pride and an ungodly focus on ourselves. We leaders need to be especially wary of this. Just because God has gifted and called us to a task, it doesn't mean that he intends to make us the next Apostle Paul or Beth Moore? And even if he does - that's up to him to worry about, not us. After all, our lives are his to do with what he likes, not ours. In his A Diary of Private Prayer, John Baillie wrote, "O Lord, forgive my unwillingness to believe that Thou hast called me to a small work and my brother to a great one." That one hit home for me. So long as God is pleased with our lives and we receive his "well done, good and faithful servant" when we meet him in glory, then who cares if the numbers in our digitized lives are low?
This prayer, given me by a mentor, is a paraphrase from Francois Fenelon - one she memorized:
Lord, help me apply myself today to my work in a manner worthy of you, with exactness and in peace. Grant me your grace to be faithful in action, and not anxious about success. My only concern is to do your will, and to lose myself in you?. It is for you to give to my weak efforts such fruits as you see fit; none, if such be your pleasure.
Who could say it better? So let the stats fall as they may? and here's to using this type of filter instead when we consider our worth and success.
Posted by Caryn Rivadeneira on March 31, 2009 5:54 PM
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Comments
Love the visual of the one and only God as our audience. How freeing, yet sharpening--free from the enslavement of others' opinions, yet sharpening as we include the Holy of Holies into our every decision and, ideally, thought. Thanks, Susan.
Posted By: Caroline O'Brien | April 1, 2009 12:35 PM
I love this post, Susan. As the editor of THIS blog, I have to say I tend to measure a posts "success" in comments. Of course, this is ridiculous---since not everyone touched or moved or inspired or challenged comments. Good reminder!
Posted By: Caryn | April 1, 2009 1:14 PM
This article really ministered to me today. As a second career professional in my fifties, I feel the pressure to measure success by numbers and growth in the physical sense. Thank you for reminding me of what my real assignment in life really is as I partner with my husband in fulltime ministry.
Posted By: felecia pearson smith | April 3, 2009 10:17 AM
'Pressure' is just the right word, Felecia, and I think it's what we all feel - increasily. I just today encountered a quote by Albert Einstein that encapsulates this notion perfectly: "Not everything that counts can be counted, and not everything that can be counted counts."
Posted By: Susan | April 3, 2009 5:23 PM
Another reason it is so comforting and awesome to be a Christian and not be "of this world" in the sense that measurement matters. I see it all around me and I so appreciate you putting this into such a good & Godly perspective, Susan. Quite a blessing.
Posted By: Michelle H. | April 3, 2009 7:05 PM
This is a great reminder of the important fact that our value was determined at the cross. It doesn't matter how many comments or hits your blog gets, how many emails, texts, voicemails, @replies, tweets, or whatever else your life elicits. I do believe it is important to impact the world, but perhaps we won't know how much of an impact our lives make until the end.
Another point is that our own efforts and lives will not impact the world, but God through them. We need to live our faith, to take action and make an impact, but we also need to remember that it is God that causes the growth.
And anyway, just because someone didn't respond to something they read doesn't mean it didn't change something within them. Who knows who reads your words, when they're put out ther ein cyberspace? Who knows how God uses our writing? Let's just trust that whatever efforts we make, whatever steps we take in faith, that God uses them to bring Himself glory, and to change lives. And I don't think that can be counted by any sort of techology. :)
Posted By: Kristen | April 6, 2009 9:09 PM
Beautiful article with an impacting message because it's not about us being successful. Instead, it's about us being obedient and yearning to know God so much more and loving HIM with all our hearts, minds, soul and strength. God help to do that and leave the fruit up to HIM.
Posted By: Norma Tilton | April 10, 2009 10:31 AM
We have a ministry to doctoral and master's students, and how to measure success worries them. Some leave our community tonight to launch their careers, and I wrote a "blessing" for them about the 7 Dreams for Their Future. It's a different way of measuring success. http://livewithflair.blogspot.com/2010/06/7-dreams-for-your-future.html
Posted By: Heather | June 3, 2010 9:39 AM