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May 8, 2009Unearthing Potential
by by Sara BentleyBy the time I was in kindergarten, I knew I was different. Not only did I stand several inches shorter than my classmates, but at 4 years of age I was also a full year younger. It was risky for my parents to send me to school so early, but they made their decision based on the potential they (and others) saw in me.
As I reflect back on that decision now, I realize my parents were putting an important leadership principle into action - "a good leader must learn to unearth potential in others." Much like Jesus saw potential in a common fisherman, a ruthless tax collector and a self-righteous Pharisee; we too must learn to look beneath the surface of what ?is' and help people explore - unearth - what could be.
Here are a few steps I've found helpful when it comes to unearthing potential in others:
1. Provide opportunities for others to explore their gifts. Too many ministries operate with the unspoken motto: "leave the ministry to the professionals." To determine if this is our modus operandi we must ask ourselves, "Who am I trusting to help dream-up and implement my ministry events and programs?" If all of the people behind our events and programs have an official title (i.e. are on staff), then it is no surprise that we aren't seeing other people's potential emerge. We must intentionally create opportunities for others to dive in and explore their gifts if we long to see people's potential bloom. This may be as simple as inviting select people into your planning meetings, or as risky as asking someone to spearhead an important aspect of an event. As you do this prepare to be surprised - potential often emerges in the most unexpected places!
2. Watch for signs of momentum. Once you've started inviting people to give their gifts a test-run, begin to watch for signs of momentum. For example, listen for those events/sermons/programs people can't stop talking about. Then take note of the person driving those efforts. It is highly likely that if momentum and excitement are building the person responsible has discovered the intersection of gifting and opportunity. This intersection is the perfect place for potential to shine and develop.
3. Commit to walk alongside. As momentum begins building, it will be tempting to remove yourself from the potential-unearthing process. Leaders often rationalize this withdrawal with thoughts like, "Things are going great, they don't really need me" or "Since that program is running smoothly, now I can get back to everything else on my to-do list." However, we must fight this temptation to disengage. As leaders we are called to continually and prayerfully shepherd those who are learning how to exercise their gifts. Even a person bursting with potential needs a guiding and supporting hand. So choose to check-in often, and offer authentic encouragement whenever possible.
Unearthing potential in people is risky. It takes time, intention, prayer, and a willingness to step out in pursuit of what could be. But I believe the payoff is well worth the investment. I would not be the disciple/wife/minister I am today if people in my life had not made the decision to develop the potential they first spotted in me. Just imagine what God has in store for those people in your life whose potential has yet to be unearthed!
Posted by Caryn Rivadeneira on May 8, 2009 8:55 PM
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Comments
You are a very refreshing voice. May God bless you in all you do.
Posted By: Tom Riglin | May 9, 2009 9:39 AM
A wonderfully written piece, Sara. Thanks for sharing your insights, and encouraging all of us who read this! Would love to hear/read more from you on this site!
Posted By: Joy | May 9, 2009 2:54 PM
Nice article--lots of practical info and a lovely slice of your personal experience. I know your parents through MH. Now I feel I know a little bit about you!
Posted By: Karen O'Connor | May 9, 2009 6:08 PM
I found your article insightful, both for the ways people have unearthed potential in me and the encouragement I need to continue unearthing gifts in those I lead. Thank you!
Posted By: Nicole Unice | May 9, 2009 8:27 PM
Wow! You never cease to amaze me. The article is indeed insightful and informative. When I first met you at ACY, I thought you might be another "educated Chaplain", full of theories to explain away the gospel. I must say, I have met quite a few. But, how thrilled I was to find that you are the real deal. Jesus shines brightly through you. You are making a difference in the lives of so many people, including mine. You are a dear person, Sara Bentley and how thankful I am you have crossed my path. You are indeed wise beyond your years.
Posted By: Mary Perkins | May 9, 2009 11:55 PM
Your very proud mom sent me your article Sara. Well done!
Posted By: Sherry List | May 10, 2009 7:37 AM
Now THAT makes sense.
Posted By: Louise | May 11, 2009 5:44 AM
So proud of you friend!
Posted By: Aleta Lewis | May 11, 2009 5:50 PM
Thank you so much for this blog! When I read the first paragraph, I related completely and this -whoosh- feeling that finally made some things add up. It's probably not what you intended from your article, but hearing you talk about that experience as a good thing made me realize that my experience of skipping kindergarten (achieving the same effect - younger and different due to potential) may have been a "good thing" in different light. I've spent much of life trying to fit in and not be different, to overcome that "intention to develop my potential" that I almost missed God's calling for me in Children's Ministry. Thank goodnes He doesn't give up! Thanks for the article and a different perspective!
Posted By: Lisa | May 12, 2009 2:06 PM